Saturday, January 15, 2011

To My Friends:

i love you guys, i really do. don't ever think i don't love you girls, because i never have stopped, despite all the mish-mash that's happened.
listen, i'm not just going to sit around anymore & watch you guys hurt, because that's not who i am. i'm a saver, not a supporter.
alright, here it goes...

you girls are smart girls, but you're making dumb decisions. your letting a boy make you sad & feel little self worth & i just don't think it's worth it. their are multiple of you guys choosing sadness over happiness, & i hate it.
we're in high school, we're supposed to be having the time of our lives, but instead you're worrying about that stupid, idiot boy you have feelings for.
listen, i've been there. we've all been there. but you girls need to be smart and get out of the funk that you're in. boys are going to hurt you, & it's going to suck every.single.time. it's never going to get easier, but you can get smarter about things.
stop worrying about winning them back. stop worrying about how their relationship is going with their new girlfriend. if you're going to keep liking them, then fine. but be patient. don't take out your irritability on the others of us who are only trying to help you. we want to be there for you, but whenever we actually are, you push us away & say we don't understand. maybe we don't, maybe we do, but you can't keep pushing us away when we're trying to help.
friends help each other. i want to help you girls be happy again, & to do that, you need to stop holding grudges. the fact that these boys aren't giving you the time of day makes me sick. you guys deserve the best & you're not getting it, so why are you even wasting your time?
keep your chin up. don't forget what really matters. be happy! let us girls help one another out! we love you guys. i love you guys. i know i'm not the only one who's thinking all of this, i'm just the only one who's brave enough to tell you guys because i'm a saver.
tell me what you think.
{A}

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