Thank you, Barb.

because i don't really care for all of you bloggers to know who i was having this conversation with, i'm going to name them barb. barb gave me some very good advice on something i was extremely torn about. when i was put in the situation i was put it, i turned to barb before anyone else because i'd knew he/she could relate to how i was feeling. here is what they said.

"being in a relationship means you're willing to do two things:

1. fall really, helplessly hard

or

2. get hurt

either way, you're the only one

who can decide if it's going to be worth it."

{A}